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The Agony of Disappointment — 3 Comments

  1. When I think of being disappointed, it is more along the lines of someone couldn’t make it to my social event or the last piece of dessert was taken before I got it. You need to be more clear in your terminology about what kind of disappointment you mean. I think the “agony of disappointment” you refer to is a deep wound (physical, emotional, financial, etc) The Bible would use the term “offense”. In Matthew chapter 18 if you are offended, you are supposed to confront the person that wronged you directly (taking more witnesses each time if they do not listen). If you did the offending, you should be asking the other party for forgiveness. The Bible doesn’t instruct us to piously say “I’ll pray for the other persons healing” or that we should be asking God to “change their expectations of you”. Taking personal responsibility for the hurts you cause others and forgiving those who hurt you is my takeaway and application of this passage. You did not use any scripture passages to back up your article of your opinions, while calling yourself a “Christian Women’s Life Coach helping women achieve closer intimacy with God”. I am disappointed with the obvious big picture points and scripture passages being omitted from your article. Perhaps you were focusing on something in your own life and not thinking about the broader application of your opinions. Maybe this would have been a better personal journal entry than a public blog post.

    • I was referring to disappointment and not offense because we can be disappointed even deeply without offense being involved, but I can also see that they can be related and there may be some overlap there. I also understand that for offense there is a scriptural methodology we should use but my main point (since I was NOT referring to offense) was to be obedient to what the Holy Spirit, the author of the Bible, is telling you to do. He will not tell you to do something contrary to scripture so that is a test point of course. There isn’t much on the web that isn’t “public” so I’m not sure what you mean be by a personal journey entry and in fact I want my readers and potential clients to see that I am a real person with problems and faults just like every other human being. Thanks for commenting.

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