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    • If we don’t EVER “complain” then we are holding things back from God. But I am not advocating an unruly spirit that blames and accuses God recklessly and endlessly without resolve—getting it resolved is the point! The balance is if you DO have feelings that need to be dealt with we have to be free to bring them to God and not forbid people from EVER saying anything that looks like a blaming or accusation against God.

  1. Perfect advice! How often do our prayer meetings – either alone or in groups- start out as complaints, and end with complaints!

  2. I very much agree that God wants us to pour all our problems to him. But mostly human mentality is that we prefer man first. And many of us honestly forgot to praise him when all goes well.

  3. Cheryl, Pouring out our complaints to God is a great reminder because we do “default’ to complaining to humans instead. God already knows our hearts anyway, so what we are telling Him, isn’t new news anyway. I think we need to share our hearts with Him in the expectation that He can do something about it! Thanks, Amy

  4. Excellent post, Cheryl. I really like that you say don’t stop until you end at a place of praise. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” The praise and thanksgiving part is so important and so healing. Thanks for posting!

  5. Wow! This hit home with me! I have such a hard time with complaining to my husband and instead I need to “complain to God until it is all out and I can praise!” I will be working on complaining only to God and not to my husband!! Hopefully this will help the tone of our marriage!

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