The Right Way to Complain
The Right Way to Complain
Yes, there is a right way to complain and there is a wrong way to complain, so, no, not all complaining is bad.
Complain first to God and not to man.
There may be occasional times where it is right and necessary to complain to men, that is to give out constructive kind criticism, but most people have the order backwards. We usually complain first to men and then if at all complain to God. On top of that we complain to the wrong men, not the person involved, but other people, as in gossip or talking behind someone’s back.
And, yes, there is a scriptural principle in complaining to God. David did it.
I poured out my complaint before him; I shewed before him my trouble. Psalm 142:2 KJV
And, no, there is no evidence that God was displeased with it. Take a look at the surrounding scriptures for yourself.
Do not stop at complaining to God until you get it all out and until you get to a place of praise.
This is probably the more common of the two problems. Some people have no trouble complaining to God, and in fact they do it all the time, blaming Him for things that are not His fault. But what a lot of people do is not stay in His Presence long enough to stop and listen to what He has to say or stay in His Presence long enough to get all of their complaints out so that they can get to a place of praising Him. If you take a look at David’s psalms you will see that he frequently starts out in a sort of complaining type of mode but always always always ends up praising God at the end. That is the key. Stay there until you can praise Him. And then do it. Actually spend some time in praise.
God wants us to pour out our hearts to Him, to give Him all your thoughts, all your emotions, not leave anything back. This is being honest with God.
Trust in him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before him:…Psalm 62:8 KJV
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